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15 signs he's using you:
1:07 Signs He's Using You #1: He Contacts You on His Schedule
Start paying attention to when you hear from this guy. Is it only late at night?
What to Do About It: If you're not sure if this is an issue, try texting him during the day and keeping track of when he responds.
1:24 Signs He's Using You #2: You're Not Going on Actual Dates
One of the signs he's using you is that you never actually go on a date, especially not a full-on dinner date that costs more than $10.
What to Do About It: Before you ditch him, ask him out for dinner or somewhere else "datey." If he's got some lame excuse, he's not interested in getting to know you over a plate of alfredo. Move on.
2:08 Signs He's Using You #3: He Says All The Right Things
The fact that he does everything right could be one of the signs he's using you!
What to Do About It: I suggest you pay attention and watch out for other signs he's using you to be sure that he's trying to take advantage of you.
2:48 Signs He's Using You #4: He Won’t Talk About Commitment
You've been seeing this guy long enough that you feel the two of you should become exclusive and not see other people. Every time you bring it up, he freaks out.
What to Do About It: I know you feel like you've invested serious time in this guy, but he's communicating a major message that you're not seeing: he wants to play the field, and you're just one part of his sport.
3:23 Signs He's Using You #5: Your Friends Think He's Terrible
Listen to your friends! They may see through his act.
What to Do About It: Your friend may be more in tune with how he's using you based on what you've told her.
4:11 Signs He's Using You #6: He’s Beyond Selfish In The Bedroom
If he cared about you, he'd do whatever it took to make your toes curl.
What to Do About It: How he treats you in the bedroom is probably indicative of how he treats you outside of it, and he will never be willing to sacrifice his own needs for you.
4:18 Signs He's Using You #7: You’ve Never Met His Friends And Family
He may not like you enough to let you into his world.
What to Do About It: Flat out ask him why he isn't introducing you. I seriously doubt he has a good excuse, but it'll at least make him squirm...before you tell him you never want to see him again.
4:51 Signs He's Using You #8: He’s Financially Dependent On You
Does he frequently complain about being broke or whine about situations that leave him strapped for cash?
What to Do About It: Here, I'd rather focus on what you shouldn't do: you should never give or loan this man money. You don't know him like that.
5:43 Signs He's Using You #9: He’s Always Asking For Favors
If the guy you're dating is constantly asking for favors, he's up to no good.
What to Do About It: See if he's willing to return the favor. I'm willing to bet he'll have excuses on why he can't do it.
6:04 Signs He's Using You #10: He Doesn’t Care How You Feel
You had a terrible day, and all you want to do is curl in a ball and vent to the man in your life. He barely looks up from watching the game to pat you on the shoulder.
What to Do About It: Leave. Immediately. He isn't worth the breath it would take to yell at him, so don't ignore this sign he's using you.
6:44 Signs He's Using You #11: He’s Not Affectionate
He never seems to want to get close to you.
What to Do About It: Honestly, some guys aren't big on PDA. Let him go.
7:05 Signs He's Using You #12: He Ghosts You
Whatever the cause (and it's quite possible you'll never know), he's ghosted, and you're left feeling frustrated.
What to Do About It: I don't think this is going to work out. So he disappeared.
7:27 Signs He's Using You #13: He Shows Up At Odd Hours
He thinks he can show up in the middle of the night??
What to Do About It: Make it clear that you have expectations, and he isn't meeting them. Then find a guy who can meet them.
7:45 Signs He's Using You #14: He Has A Rep
When you tell people who you're dating, they get a funny look in their eyes.
What to Do About It: You'll end up with a broken heart, and I simply can't have that.
8:16 Signs He's Using You #15: You Aren’t His One And Only
You get the sense you're not his only woman.
What to Do About It: If you aren't intimate yet, let him know that the only way that's going to happen is if you become exclusive.
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